Alternate between licking and sucking on the nipple.
We encourage aggressive physical contact as an appropriate mode of contact for boys and turn a blind eye to bullying, even as we then expect them to work out some gentler mode of sexual contact in their romantic lives.
We are cut off from it.
We are not typically taught that we can touch and be touched as a platonic expression of joyful human contact.
Men often experience a lack of gentle touch from others from a young age.
There is no corresponding narrative about women.
This left me with huge insecurities about human contact.
And if you are a man, imagine five minutes of contact with another man.