The newspapers reported the splashy suburban murder-suicide, and Harry's hometown memorial in Tacoma packed the house.
I walked by him, and he called out to me: "Hi, would you come over here and shake my hand? I was painfully aware, growing up, that Cal was the butt of family jokes.
Thank you, Uncle Jim.
I've decided it doesn't matter.
It was the weekend I flew home to finally come out to my parents.
This person tends to want only to talk.
But where do you complain if a cuddling session goes too far? I have to watch it alone.
Her boyfriend - who was also not identified - was then brought in front of the crowd wearing a white robe, known as a jubba.